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BoyPower: Body Image & Self-Esteem

The TeenThreads Real-Talk hub for confidence without comparison — understanding your body, respecting yourself, and building self-worth that doesn’t depend on likes or mirrors.

Confidence
Self-Worth
Body Respect
Social Media
Mental Health

TeenThreads Reality Check

Body image struggles are common — especially in a world full of filters, edits,
and unrealistic standards. Feeling unsure about your appearance doesn’t mean
something is wrong with you.

Confidence isn’t loving how you look every day. It’s respecting yourself even on bad days.

1) What Body Image Really Is

Body image is how you think, feel, and act toward your body — not how it actually looks.

  • thoughts about appearance
  • feelings about weight, shape, skin, or height
  • how comfortable you feel being seen
Two people can look the same and feel completely different about themselves.

2) Why Body Image Gets Messy in the Teen Years

  • puberty and body changes
  • comparison with friends or influencers
  • comments from others (even jokes)
  • pressure to “fit in”
Your body is changing because it’s growing — not because it’s failing.

3) Social Media vs Real Life

What You See Online

  • filters and editing
  • best angles only
  • highlight reels

What You Don’t See

  • bad days
  • lighting tricks
  • retakes and deletions
Comparing your real life to someone’s edited feed will always feel unfair.

4) Myths vs Facts

Myth: “Confidence comes from looks.”
Fact: Confidence comes from self-respect.

Myth: “Everyone else is happy with their body.”
Fact: Most people struggle silently.

Myth: “I need to change my body to be accepted.”
Fact: You deserve respect now.

5) Building Self-Esteem (That Lasts)

  • talk to yourself like you would to a friend
  • focus on skills, not just appearance
  • set boundaries with negative comments
  • do things that make you feel capable
Self-esteem grows from how you treat yourself — not from approval.

6) Health Over Looks

Being healthy is about how your body functions, not how it compares to others.

  • sleep for brain and mood
  • movement that feels good
  • fueling your body regularly
  • rest without guilt
You don’t owe anyone a certain body type.

7) When to Get Help

Reach out if body image struggles are causing:

  • constant self-criticism
  • avoiding school or activities
  • food guilt or extreme control
  • feeling worthless or hopeless
Talking to a trusted adult or counselor is support — not failure.

TeenThreads Final Word

You don’t have to love your body every day to live confidently.
Respect, care, and patience are enough to start.

By TeenThreads Content Team

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