Your one-stop BoyPower guide for crushes, confidence, dating mistakes, rejection, and respect —
practical, honest, and built for real teen life.
Liking someone is normal. Getting rejected hurts. Learning from both is how confidence grows.
This page teaches rules, scripts, and mindset upgrades so you can handle crushes with respect —
for them and for yourself.
Confidence
Rejection
Respect
Boundaries
BoyPower Reality Check
Confidence isn’t “never getting rejected.” Confidence is knowing you’ll be okay even if you are.
Dating is not a scoreboard — it’s communication.
You don’t need tricks or pressure. Respect, clarity, and self-control are the real glow-up.
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Rejection doesn’t define you. How you handle it does.
Quick Jump
1) Crush Basics (What’s Normal)
Totally normal
- thinking about them a lot
- feeling nervous or excited
- overthinking texts
- wanting approval
Not healthy
- pressuring or chasing after “no”
- obsessing or stalking online
- changing your values to be liked
- insults when feelings aren’t returned
Rule #1: Liking someone never gives you ownership of them.
2) What Real Confidence Looks Like
Confidence is
- being respectful even when nervous
- handling “no” calmly
- not needing approval to feel okay
- having goals outside dating
Confidence is NOT
- being loud or aggressive
- pressuring for attention
- flexing or bragging
- making someone feel small
Strong guys don’t force interest. They attract it with respect.
3) Asking Someone Out (Simple & Respectful)
- Be clear, not vague.
- Ask once — don’t pressure.
- Accept the answer the first time.
- Keep it short and respectful.
Examples
- “I like talking with you. Want to hang out sometime?”
- “No worries if not — just wanted to ask.”
4) Common Dating Mistakes (Learn Fast)
Avoid these
- texting nonstop
- jealous comments
- making it sexual too fast
- trash-talking after rejection
Do this instead
- match energy
- respect space
- keep conversations kind
- focus on your life too
5) Handling Rejection Like a Man
- Say “Okay, thanks for being honest.”
- Don’t argue or demand reasons.
- Give space and move forward.
- Keep your dignity.
Rejection is feedback — not a verdict.
6) Respect, Consent & Boundaries
Always
- listen to “no” or hesitation
- respect personal space
- keep private things private
- treat people like humans, not goals
Never
- pressure or guilt
- share screenshots or rumors
- use insults
- ignore boundaries
7) Text & Talk Scripts
If they say no“Got it. Thanks for being honest.”
If you feel nervous“I’m a bit nervous, but I wanted to ask respectfully.”
If you need space“I’m going to focus on my stuff for a bit.”
If boundaries are crossed“I’m not comfortable with that.”
BoyPower Quiz (20 Questions)
- Confidence means never being rejected. (T/F)
- Is it okay to ask someone out more than once after a no?
- What’s the best response to rejection?
- True confidence depends on approval. (T/F)
- Give one respectful way to ask someone out.
- Why is pressuring harmful?
- What’s a healthy boundary?
- Is jealousy a sign of love? (Yes/No)
- How should you handle screenshots?
- Name one dating mistake to avoid.
- What does “matching energy” mean?
- Why is space important?
- What’s one sign of respect?
- What should you do after rejection?
- True or false: Insults after rejection are okay.
- Why is self-respect attractive?
- What’s one confidence habit?
- How do boundaries build trust?
- What’s one healthy response to nerves?
- Finish: “Rejection is ___, not ___.”
Answer key (summary): Respect, honesty, calm responses, and self-control.
Trusted Resources
- U.S. support: Call/Text 988 — 988lifeline.org
BoyPower Final Word
Crushes come and go. Confidence is built. Respect lasts.
Handle dating with honesty, and you’ll always keep your self-respect.